WHAT IS LOVE?

LOVE LOVE LOVE

It's not hard to find someone who will TELL you that they love you. It's hard to find someone that
actually MEANS it. :)

Yesterday while i was putting clothes in the washing machine, i could hear ma grandma was watching family tv in ma bedroom- family tv,its a christian/ gospel channel- Joyce Meyer show was on. She is a charismatic christian author and speaker.
On this day, she was speaking about love. The one thing everyone wants and seeks in life.
She read a scripture from the Holy Bible; 1 corinthians 13:4-8 and it says:
love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self- seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protect, always trusts, always hope, always preseveres.

WOW....THIS IS WHAT LOVE IS!

It got me thinking whether i have or if i do any of those things; my answer is 50/50. The 3things i do not have or working on right now are patience, not easily angered and trust.

My patience level is very wanting; i just want things when i want them and if it doesn't happen i will be super pissed. However; i am really working on it. Its not something i can change over night but eventually i will do it. I have learn't "The longer you have to wait for something, the more you will appreciate it when it finally arrives."

NOT EASILY ANGERED! OOH LALAA. Where should i begin. I usually get angry almost instantly- i am sure your thinking thats normal too, so did i but its not.This is one thing someone i like noticed and kept mentioning it to me. I used to wonder what the hell is he talking about and with time i realised its very true. I was kinder like a ticking bomb waiting to exploid everytime someone says something i do not like; I explode into an angry rage. But anymore or rather its not as bad,I am working on it and i can say i am making tremedous improvement but Its not easy at all since i have to also change some of my beliefs. nevertheless In the end i am a better person for me, him and everyone!

Trust issues! Just by saying the words makes me feel uncomfortable. For me trusting someone isnt easy at all,especially if i like you ( I guess it from my past experience and as the saying goes once beaten, twice shy). There is a constant fear that someone will hurt me in one way or another and i cant bearing the thought of the pain and betrayal. However i have come to find out that there people who do deserve my trust and he is one of them.

He has hardly ever given me a reason not to trust him; and i not trusting him before was not to hurt him. I was just so scared of being hurt, i ended up hurting him and I. With time I have worked on my trust issues and i am still working on it.

And I TRUST HIM EVEN MORE THAN I DID BEFORE.

Looking back to how my day was yesterday its like God wanted me to be there at that time to hear what Joyce Meyer had to say since i wasn't really in the mood to do laundry and for this i am grateful to him since he has given me more reasons to work on my weaknesses.

For anyone who is reading this, kindly consider 1 Corinthians 13:4-8. It might answer why all your relationships have not worked out. It might answer why your current relationship isnt working. It might make you see love in a whole new perspective and lastly it also might make you believe in LOVE and give you HOPE.

cheers to you all. mob luv from MOI®

NAIROBIAN WOMAN

So i found this silly article about  NAIROBIAN WOMAN and trust me i hv so much to answer back....
The blue font is the article and the pink font is me
Here it is:
- She earns a salary of 10k yet stays in a bungalow worth 40k...you wonder how she raises the rent. 

Stop wondering how she raises the money and start working, both you and i know that money doesn't grow on trees,meaning her man is paying her rent and that is how it should be.Men are meant to provide for their women, simple. If you cant provide stop complaining and who said that she doesn't have other part time jobs.

- She will always have flu yet she has no idea that Ken-knit still makes
sweaters that can keep her warm. 

She doesn't always have a cold, that's a lie and yes she does know ken-knit still make sweaters that can keep her warm but she rather rock F&F, Gucci,etc

- She made the petticoat go extinct and now she is working on eliminating the bra and she will complain that men are ogling at her breasts...

She made petticoat disappear since she didn't see why women wore it in the first place.I highly doubt she wants to eliminate bras because she knows the wonders a bra can do for her boobs. Men should know that its her mouth speaking not her breast so staring at her face will be the right thing to do.

Though she is as broke as a church mouse , you will find her always at Java...

Clearly her brokenness level is different from yours, when she says she is broke she might still have 80k in her account while you saying your broke you only have 300 in your pocket. So dont be surprised, you just ain't in the Same level.

- Where I come from ‘going out’ means going to the toilet at night but to the Nairobi woman it is galloping from one club to the other with her gang of equally confused girls... this woman shocks me.

Wow country boy, you still have a lot to learn about the city; going out means clubbing and it doesn't necessarily mean "galloping" from one club to another and Let me help you with your vocabulary i guess what you want to say is club hopping and not club galloping . Okay country boy! Ask your city boys, to explain to you how it works since they do it to.Your allowed to hate on her friends its only normal to hate on what you cant have.

- Other women would be proud to share their bed with a child but this
woman has a brood of ugly teddy bears named after her exes that she
tells stories of her escapades ..’you see Johny, today this jamaa angaliad me and I angaliad him so we angaliad each other. 

So do you want her to sleep with her child until their twenty years old (or what age would you like her to stop sharing her bed with her child? ) so as to produce irresponsible men who like to complain instead of being a man who can maintain a so called Nairobian woman. No thank!

- Imagine ‘This woman cares about her artificial hair more that she cares about her head...she would rather suffocate herself with a polythene bag than see water drop on her ‘weave’.. and when she goes to sleep, the stocking on her head makes mosquitoes think it is Halloween and they don’t need that woman in the Doom advert to do her tricks.. 

Now this one is one thing i wouldn't disagree with, her artificial hair cost about half your rent and this is if your rent is more than 16k; if not her hair cost more than your rent... Why the hell wont she not prevent it from the rain and your chose of words is pathetic; They do not suffocate themselves, they cover they hair. I dont understand how you know what the mosquito think about...

- She would tell you she is ‘watching her weight’ when she is watching the
plate full of chips and half chicken that she is slowly throwing into her mouth at KFC ...

First KFC doesn't sell half a chicken it sells pieces and she has already counted the calories of fries with pieces of chicken to know that the meal wont interrupt her diet.

- She would rather quench her thirst with Smirnoff than cold water..and she does not feel hungry ,she gets a craving. This craving at times makes
her think ice cream is a meal... 

So its very okey for a man to ask for ugali with chicken and tusker baridi but not for a woman to ask for fries with fried meat and Smirnoff. Its the same thing so if you think its wrong when a woman does it then you have gender issues.

- She loves pain, she loves to be pricked, you will find her face with
many rivets, screws and bolts that she calls earrings, nose rings, eyebrow rings, tongue rings, lip rings etc and she complains of violence against women while she violates herself.

 You may not like it but she does and that is what matters the most. Furthermore Beauty lies in the eyes of the beholder.

- You may think she loves rings but try to put a wedding ring on her finger and her gang of girls will make her disappear without a trace.

 And that is what i call true friendship, they cant seat and watch you turn they friend into a house wife... No not now, not ever!

              

WHAT I HAVE LEARNT

 As i grow up, i have learnt that even the one person that wasn't supposed to ever let me down, probably will, more than once. I'll have my heart broken and it will feel like the end of the world but its just a feeling, it will go away with time.I'll fight with my best friends or maybe even fall in love with them but that's how friendship is. I'll cry so many times because i am frustrated, hurt, happy, excited or maybe to just forget about things and also to say goodbye to people i love the most. So i will take too many pictures, laugh too much, forgive freely, and each time i will love like I've never been hurt before, i will constantly start fresh until i am forever happy.
Life comes with no guarantees, no time outs, no second chances. I just have to live life to the fullest, tell someone what they mean to me and tell off people who deserve it, speak out my mind, dance in the pouring rain, hold someone's hand, comfort a friend, fall asleep watching the sun come up, stay up late, be a flirt, and smile until my face hurts. I aint afraid to take chances or fall in love and most of all, i will live in the moment because every second i spend angry or upset is a second of happiness i can never get back.
i think all of you should do the same however this doesn't mean you shouldn't learn from your mistakes or others... It just means in regardless of what your going through or what you have being through. It shouldn't hinder you from living life to the fullest.
Cheers to u all.

I am just SWEET like that....!

What have i done this monday?

So yesterday i wake up tired like hell, clearly i had a crazy weekend and i was paying for it. Its okey though i enjoyed it.

My mamushka always says that a person should always make sure that they do something nice for someone everyday and yes i always try to do that or rather i try my level best to help out others whenever i can... Plus i am just SWEET LIKE THAT.

This monday i did something nice for my friend out of the ordinary, i made her bed,i arranged her stand for cosmetics and bags, and also her paper shelf, without her knowing just wanted to surprise her. I was also helping her since She had left her house in a hurry in the morning and didnt get time to arrange therefore i just thought i should help and i just couldnt stand the way it was ( but thats beside the point) .I usualy dont do this for just anyone btw just for special people and she is one of them! A very gud friend to me and i do appreciate it and wouldnt mind helping her out at anytime....

After the cleaning up and arranging stuff i realised that i have changed i aint the girl that had the messy closets, the pile of clean and dirty clothers put together on the coner of the room, the dirty room with the never emptied trashbin and the room that only i could find anything i am looking for or need..

That aint Moi anymore! A mess drives me crazy, just cant stomach it like i use too. I have changed so much after clearing high school; i grow up and figured out cleanliness and organisation is the best way and it shows signs of me being responsible and thats what my mamushka needs to know that her babygirl is responsible.

New Blog

While i sat by the fire place, i begun wonderin y i just opened a new blog: i realised that i just need a place to write about ma fun loving n sometimes challenging life... N yes here it is.....MOI®
A place i can say whatever i like, tell the world what i like, dont like, what i am upto, what i was upto, what i am goin to dress and what i had on and what i cant wait to have and the list goes on and on.
This wil be ma mini Ediary..lol